Why would a man bring a man to bed with his wife?

Sometimes, bringing a man to bed with the wife was a pretext—a bait and switch if you will—for the husband to then engage sexually with the man as well. Sometimes, the husbands were very concerned about being seen as heterosexual, but they spent an awful lot of time looking for well-endowed men for their wives.

Is it bad if your wife sleeps with another man?

It’s not a good sign if you have misgivings about your wife sleeping with another man before it’s even happened. If it’s vexing you in the abstract, it may positively haunt you if it actually happens.

How do you get a man to do what you want?

The key to getting a man to do what you want is to give him something in return. Make him believe that your goal is worth his while. Whether you’re his employee, his car salesman or his wife of 50 years, getting a man to do whatever you want works in the same way — through mutual benefits, not manipulation. Ask nicely.

What should I do if my wife is dating a guy?

My second bit of advice is for your wife tell this guy what’s really going on. This will save you potential awkwardness if you do ever meet, alleviate any guilt or weird feelings that might come up with her or him, and makes it so your wife doesn’t have to lie, etc. Full disclosure is really best in these kinds of situations. Plus!

Is it a turn on to see other men flirting with your wife?

While most guys would probably hate or get jealous by the idea, these women’s husbands find that watching other man devote attention to their wives is something of an ego boost and for some, a huge turn on. Of course, there are rules that are followed and harmless flirting is about as far as it goes.

Can a man’s “illicit” sexual fulfillment help his wife?

It’s fascinating that (whether in fantasy or reality) a man’s focusing on his wife’s “illicit” sexual fulfillment can help him, however vicariously, experience substantial fulfillment himself.

Why do men like to be in control of women?

I love being in control of both a woman as a submissive and her man, especially when he is restrained. It helps men who feel inadequate with their partner, but it’s not just about sexual ability. It can also be about their fear of losing their woman, penis size or a lack of business success.