What to do when you dont like your partners child?

Here are some things you can do to try to improve your experience and maybe even start to cultivate good feelings toward your stepchild:

1. Create a vision for your life that includes your stepchild.
2. Address the behavior.
3. Don’t have regrets.
4. Find one endearing quality you can embrace.
5. Pretend you’re her.

What do you do when you don’t like your partners children?

Aside from taking things slow and respecting your kids’ opinions, here are some things you can do if your kids really dislike your partner.

1. When Your Kids Hate Your Partner.
2. Where to Start.
3. Determine the Real Issue.
4. Talk it Over With Your Child.
5. Help Your Child Feel Included.
6. Enlist Your Ex If Possible.

Do You give your spouse as much attention as your children?

All I’m saying is give your spouse at least as much attention as your children. That doesn’t mean that if you’re home with your child eight hours during the day that you have to block off nine hours for your spouse. What it does mean is that after the eight hours, you need to let your child play by themselves for a bit.

What do you talk about with your spouse while raising kids?

All their conversations have been about the logistics of raising kids. Grocery lists, bills, scheduling activities, how they did in school, etc.. Without the children, there’s no relationship. And both spouses have grown as individuals over the last 20+ years of raising children.

How can I make my relationship with my husband and children better?

Focusing on your relationship with your children and putting your relationship with your spouse on the back burner. “We’ll work on us when the kids are grown up.” Spending excessive amounts of money on the children when your budget can’t support it and/or when your spouse isn’t in favour of it.

What does a child need to see their parents love each other?

A child needs to see their parents love each other, and that doesn’t come about by handling the logistics of the child. It comes about by creating true intimacy with each other. That takes time and effort. Most importantly, intimacy takes time alone. That means time without children.