What do you say to someone who is struggling with a chronic illness?
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What do you say to someone who is struggling with a chronic illness?
10 Things to say to someone with a chronic illness
- I wish I knew what to say, but I care and I’m here for you.
- I believe you.
- Can I bring you food?
- I know how hard you’re trying.
- Don’t feel bad if you have to cancel plans at the last minute, I understand.
What do you say to someone who is suffering from a disease?
1. Say Get Well in a way that’s personal and sincere.
- A note to remind you that I love you—and I hate that you’re sick.
- I hate it when my favorite people get hurt.
- I miss having you around.
- Sending you lots of feel-better hugs.
- Get better and get back to your amazing self soon!
- I can’t tell you how to get better.
What do you say to someone with chronic pain?
Here’s what the chronically ill wish you’d say to them.
- “You look so good, but how are you really feeling?”
- “I’m going to the hardware store.
- “It must be hard to be sick and in pain all the time,” or “It must be frustrating to have to limit your activities so much.”
- “Do we need to stop visiting so you can rest?”
How would you help a friend fight a prolonged illness?
If you want to help but don’t know where to start, here are some suggestions on how to support someone with a serious illness.
- Ask what kind of friend the person needs you to be.
- Offer specific help.
- Make plans.
- Send notes and cards.
- Visit when possible.
- Offer to chauffeur or even attend appointments.
How do you comfort someone in pain messages?
Sharing their own reactions: “I’m so sorry, “I’m so angry,” “I feel so helpless; I wish there was something I could do,” or even “I don’t know what to say.” Creating space for your pain: “Do you want to talk about it?” “It’s OK to cry,” or, “We don’t have to talk; I’m happy to just sit here with you.”
How can family members help with chronic pain?
Understand your loved one’s emotions. People who suffer with chronic pain often feel isolated and unimportant. Recognize these emotions and help your family member work through them. Help them participate and socialize as much as possible — even if it means using a computer for a virtual visit or outing.
What do you say when someone receives bad health news?
Try saying something like this instead: “I know this is not what you expected. I’m so, so sorry you are dealing with this. Know that I love you so much, and will be praying for you during this really difficult time.”