Is it normal for a child to hate their parents?

Kids who consequently have a lot of hate in their heart. It’s completely normal, and expected really, to despise your parents when they’ve abused or abandoned you. Or even if they’ve never laid a hand on you but held you to unrealistic expectations or forced you to live a life you don’t desire.

How can I get my Children to respect me?

If you act helpless and defeated to your children they will never learn to respect you and will treat you as an equal or an inferior because you have used them for your own therapy. You must show your children you can stand up to problems, face your challenges and handle life through all the stress and come out on the other side.

Does directing your child’s relationships inhibit their maturity?

Directing every action your child takes in their relationships — from friends to teachers — inhibits their maturity.

What happens if you never talk to your child about expectations?

If you never talk about your expectations, you keep your child from knowing how to behave appropriately. Children live up or down to what you expect. Rules give them guidelines and boundaries to help them define who they are, good and bad.

What will happen if a parent does nothing?

So if a parent does nothing, their children will become quite schooled in the dark arts of self-indulgence. Therefore, parents must constrain their children to right behavior. In time their moral understanding will develop and they will begin to choose good, even when it is contrary to their carnal desires.

Is it harmful to children when their parents fight?

The parents come out not speaking to each other, followed by hours or days of emotional distance. Now that kind of fighting is indeed harmful to the children. They are able to read the souls of their parents and they feel the bitterness and hate in every moment of silence and self-control. Bad example.

What would happen if you took your parents’ comments personally?

If I had taken any comments from my parents implying that I was selfish or lazy personally, I would’ve become much, much more depressed. (I didn’t take them personally for a range of reasons having to do with my parents’ history of saying and doing wild shit when I was a kid; believe me, I’m not blaming you for caring what your parents think!)