Do you treat yourself the way you want other people to treat you?

The Golden Rule of Self-Care: Treat Yourself the Way You Want Others to Treat You. Do you treat other people better than you treat yourself? If yes, this is for you. You’re not the only one who would do anything for someone else, but when it comes to yourself, it’s tough to even muster an “I like you.”

How do you treat people the way they treat you?

How you treat others is how you invite them to treat you.

1. Instead of judging people by their past, stand by them and help them build their future.
2. Listen with curiosity, speak with candor, and act with integrity.
3. Treat everyone with kindness–not because they are kindhearted, but because you are.

Why do we treat others better than we treat ourselves?

So what does this mean for those of us who treat others better than we treat ourselves? It means that because we minimized our likes, dislikes and needs for the sake of others in the past, we continue to do so in the present because even though we don’t like it, it is what we know. It is our comfort zone.

How do you show someone you want to be treated?

What It Means to Teach People How to Treat You

1. Start with yourself.
2. Talk about your “rules of engagement.”
3. Communicate your needs clearly and compassionately.
4. Model how you’d like to be treated.
5. Reinforce behaviors you like.
6. Pick a role model to emulate.
7. Have realistic expectations.

Why is it important to treat people?

Receiving respect from others is important because it helps us to feel safe and to express ourselves. Respect means that you accept somebody for who they are, even when they’re different from you or you don’t agree with them. Respect in your relationships builds feelings of trust, safety, and wellbeing.

Why do we treat ourselves badly?

It’s hard to feel at ease when you have a pervasive feeling that, in some fundamental way, you’re not OK. And negative thoughts and feelings about ourselves often go along with treating ourselves badly. We might verbally abuse ourselves, deprive ourselves of sleep, eat poorly, or abuse substances that harm our bodies.

Why we should treat everyone equally?

In a community, if everyone is treated equally then everyone should be able to work together, solve problems, feel safe and cared for. Treating people equally is also a big part of human rights. So, no matter what someone’s individual circumstance is they should be treated with respect, dignity, and kindness.

How do you teach people how to treat you?

You teach people how to treat you with how you treat you. Period. If you don’t have healthy boundaries, if you don’t rest, if you don’t take care of yourself, people pick-up on this and they will take advantage of you.

How do you make others treat you more kindly?

As leadership expert John C. Maxwell writes in Your Road Map For Success: You Can Get There from Here: “If you want others to treat you more kindly, you must develop better people skills. There is no sure way to make other people in your environment improve.”

What happens if you don’t change the way you treat yourself?

If you do not change the way you expect to be treated, the way you treat yourself, you will continue the same pattern, of course that goes the same with a positive relationship! This is not a subject that applies more to one gender or the other.

Are you unhappy with how you are being treated?

If you find yourself unhappy with how you are being treated, if you feel you are always being taken for granted, used, misused, or even abused by some of the people in your life, it’s time for you to do a self-check. Award winning journalist & author. Contributor NBC News, NBCBLK, Politico Magazine.