Should I tell his wife about the affair?

“If the affairs are in the past and the other person is committed to their marriage, I would counsel not to disclose,” she said. “Holding onto that secret is painful but as I see it, it might very well destroy a relationship the couple had already gone on to rebuild if you dump the info onto the spouse’s lap.”

Should you confront his mistress?

5 – Should You Contact the Mistress After an Affair? Don’t gratify their hostility. You don’t want to act in ways that allow the other person to believe your mate was justified in coming to them. If you act like a crazy person in confronting them you only give them justification for their actions.

What does it mean when your spouse can’t forgive you?

I’ve had many people admit that they feel that if their spouse can’t forgive them, then this must also mean that their spouse doesn’t love them enough. This often just isn’t the case. Their being unable or unwilling to forgive is simply that. You really shouldn’t try to draw your own conclusions.

How do you forgive someone who is having an affair?

1. A sincere promise the other relationship is over. Goes without saying. If you’ve discovered an ongoing affair, you need to be sure your partner is willing to completely call it quits with the other person — and that includes no communication or friendship. Otherwise, why would you consider forgiveness?

Is forgiveness for infidelity required to move past it?

Know That Forgiveness For Infidelity Isn’t Required To Move Past It: Countless people tell me that they feel that if their spouse can’t forgive their infidelity, then their marriage must be doomed. Again, this isn’t always the case. Some spouses remain married while the betrayed spouse still remains on the fence about forgiveness.

Can You Love Your Wife again after infidelity?

In all my experiences, YES, you can love your wife again with true passion and desire. In my experience it’s entirely possible to learn how to forgive a cheating wife. Yes, someday you will be able to look back at your wife’s current affair and say that you honestly can forgive her for infidelity.