Guidelines

Is it normal to miss old friends?

Is it normal to miss old friends?

It’s normal. But in life, you just have to keep going. Your new friends are addition to your experiences in life but they will not and cannot replace the time you had with your friends. In short, get together with your old friends now and then.

How do I get my old friend back?

Come back later and try telling them how you feel. If they still don’t want to be friends, give them some time and talk to other friends. If you’ve done something rude or mean to your friend, give them time and space to let them figure it out if you’re their friend.

How to know if a friend really cares about you?

Here are some things that are important when it comes to assessing if a friend really cares about you. Someone who cares about you will ask you how your day is, not in an effort to tell you how terrible their day was or out of any obligation, but because they genuinely care about what’s going on in your life.

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Why is a friend like a family member?

This is the important question. A friend might present a similar challenge as a parent or sibling, and thus elicit the same feeling in us that we had with that family member. We then interpret that feeling as love and attachment. We say that friend is “like family,” because, in fact, they are.

Should we honor our history with an old friend?

Mistakenly, we are taught that the only way to honor our history with an old friend is to stay in an active relationship. We believe that to let a friendship go because it is no longer nourishing or enjoyable (and may even have become harmful) is to dishonor our history with that friend and eradicate the place that they occupied in our life.

What to do when you run into a former friend?

Only you can decide! Since your former friend is in your town/social scene, you may run into her again after you talk with her. It’s okay to give a quick “Hello!” and then move on with your day. You don’t have to shun her like she never existed (that’s mean) or avoid living your life where you live (that’s mean to yourself).