Why does my boyfriend treat me like crap?
Why does my boyfriend treat me like crap?
Maybe he isn’t available as often as he once was (without a genuine excuse), or perhaps he is emotionally distant without explanation, or maybe he starts fights and arguments, withholds affection, has simply stopped being thoughtful, or has just disconnected from you.
How do I get him to treat me well?
Prioritize respect. Be sure to treat your partner with respect just as much as you want him or her to respect you. Most importantly, have respect for yourself. Treat yourself with respect and dignity. Don’t be in a relationship just because you’re lonely, and don’t let your partner walk all over you.
How do you gain respect back in a relationship?
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- 10 Ways to Gain Deep Respect from Your Romantic Partner.
- Say what you mean, mean what you say.
- Have boundaries.
- Have clear values.
- Make independent judgments and decisions.
- Have a life outside of the relationship.
- Act respectfully.
- Listen well.
How do I get my boyfriend to stop treating me like gold?
Treat him like he is nothing special, just like he treats you. Stop thinking the nicer, kinder, and more generous you are to him will make him stop treating you like shit. Haven’t you tested that theory enough? You have, and it is time to stop treating someone like gold when they treat you like shit.
What should I do if my boyfriend doesn’t care about my feelings?
If he really cared about your feelings he wouldn’t hurt them. Now you need to start caring more about yourself, and less about him. Don’t think by doing more nice things he is going to be nicer to you. Don’t teach people they get the best of you when they give you nothing, or the worst of themselves. If you do, that is exactly what you will get.
What should I do if my boyfriend keeps making excuses?
He is supposed to come to you for comfort, not to make you his partner in misery. Stop making excuses for him because the poor baby isn’t happy right now. Tough. Don’t let him use whatever he is going though to make excuses for his behavior either.
Should I stop trying to stop my boyfriend from demeaning me?
Stop trying, because he will always find something to demean you with. You need to either stand up to him or leave him. This is about HIM being a mean nasty person, not about YOUR faults. Sarah, I wish I could hug you right now. You will never understand how much you have impacted my life today.