How to deal with a flying monkey narcissist?

Here are some things to keep in mind when dealing with flying monkeys. 1. Go No Contact With the Flying Monkeys. Flying monkeys pretend to care, but they really thrive off of information they can gossip over and stir the pot with the narcissist. You cannot trust them.

Should you go no contact with the Flying Monkeys?

Go No Contact With the Flying Monkeys. Flying monkeys pretend to care, but they really thrive off of information they can gossip over and stir the pot with the narcissist. You cannot trust them. Their help costs you the narcissist trying to reach out. Depending on where you are with your healing, you don’t need that.

Are flying monkeys dangerous and mean?

Some flying monkeys can be dangerous and mean. Not every flying monkey is deceived by the narcissist. Some are narcissists in training. If you see an angry or apathetic monkey heading your way, lock all the doors. Flying Monkeys are the narcissist’s extra right hand contributing to both triangulation and boundary violations.

Why do flying monkeys come with a self-righteous attitude?

’Twas the night before Freedom, when all through the house, siblings were arriving each bringing their spouse. Many flying monkeys come with a self-righteous attitude when they ask you to be nice to the narcissist. This is because the narcissist has played the victim and they’ve bought into the lies.

What are flying monkeys and what do they do?

Flying Monkeys, in short, are people sent to do the biddings of the narcissist- reel you back into the storm. Anything you say will be reported back to the narcissist. Don’t seek solace with anyone in contact with the narcissist. If you are trying to heal, it is very important to note that flying monkeys will not respect your desire for no contact.

Do you feel like the flying monkeys are on the attack?

It can be even more potent because it’s harder to push back on the opinions of many. If you’re feeling like the flying monkeys are on the attack, don’t worry. Below, Dr. Durvasula recommends a few methods to keep them at bay and protect your sanity and sense of well-being.